Just Be: Dementia, Life, and Death
Beth Malone, in her TedTalk titled "How my dad's dementia changed my idea of death (and life)," discusses the phases of her feelings towards death in regards to her dad's frontotemporal lobe dementia diagnosis. Her initial feelings towards her father life or death were that she was going to kill her dad. Not because he had done anything wrong, but she felt as if the quality of life that he was living was not one that he would have wanted. She saw his body as the torture device that was inhibiting him from living how he would have wanted. This then made her long for discussions about death while everyone was healthy. After realizing that she could not actually kill her dad, she began to seek guidance. Many people told her that often times people who are ready to die hold on for their family members, so she should tell him that they are all okay and he can go if he needs to. When she did to go tell her dad that, she had an experience with him that led her to the realiz...